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		<title>Rod Serlings last interview</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rod Serling&#39;s last interview: &#8220; As most of you know, recently I posted a series of interview excerpts with Rod Serling. Based upon the enthusiastic response from GITS readers, I&#8217;ve got two treats for you: First, I created this webpage which features all 15 posts and video excerpts. You can find it as well on [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=58&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gointothestory.com/2010/03/rod-serlings-last-interview.html">Rod Serling&#39;s last interview</a>: &#8220;<img alt="http://westsidebinghamton.org/rodserling.jpg" src="http://westsidebinghamton.org/rodserling.jpg"></p>
<p>As most of you know, recently I posted a series of interview excerpts with Rod Serling.  Based upon the enthusiastic response from GITS readers, I&#8217;ve got two treats for you: </p>
<p>First, I created <a href="http://sites.google.com/site/scottdistillery/rod-serling-on-writing">this webpage</a> which features all 15 posts and video excerpts.  You can find it as well on the blog home page under List as &#8216;Rod Serling On Writing.&#8217; </p>
<p>Second, Lee Matthias &#8212; who deserves a massive H/T &#8212; sent me a link: <a href="http://jaced.com/2010/02/24/rod-serlings-final-interview-march-4-1975/">Rod Serling&#8217;s last interview</a>.  It was conducted on March 4, 1975.  Serling died 4 months later.  Here are the thoughts of the interviewer Linda Brevell:<br />
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<blockquote style="color:rgb(51,51,255);"><h3>Rod Serling: The Facts of Life</h3>
<p>An Interview by Linda Brevelle</p>
<blockquote><p>Rod Serling’s last interview took place at Franco’s La  Taverna on Sunset Strip on March 4, 1975 just a few months prior to his  sudden death at fifty. The restaurant was a favorite hangout of  Serling’s, a place where he could observe a wide range of human types  who might conceivably become models for characters in his scripts and  where, as a celebrity, he was often observed by them as well.</p>
<p>Serling was as cooperative an interviewee as I have ever met. There  was no pre-rehearsed or packaged dialogue, no bored or weary  let’s-get-this-over-with routines such as one so often finds in the  famous. Without getting side-tracked, I found it easy to take in his  wit, compassion, and crusading spirit.</p>
<p>I regret that he was unable to complete the screenplay he was writing  (an adaptation of Morris West’s The Salamander). Looking back, it seems  the frequent references to mortality lent a haunting foreshadowing to  his untimely death, and only now, as his words come drifting back, do I  wonder if he knew our interview would be his last.</p>
<p>‘I’ve never planned ahead,’ he told me. ‘I just sort of go through  life checking the menu of three meals that day. I never worry about  tomorrow. It’s only since I’ve gotten older that I’ve begun to wonder  about time running out. Is it sufficient unto itself that I don’t plan?  Because maybe next Thursday won’t come one day. And then, I’m concerned  about that. But that’s not uniquely the writer’s concern, that’s the  concern of every middle-aged man who looks in the mirror.’</p>
<p>I miss the full-bodied voice now faded from the airwaves, except for  occasional reruns of Twilight Zone and Night Gallery at ungodly hours on  local tv stations. As for Franco’s, it too is now gone having been  replaced by another establishment not long after Serling’s death. But I  can’t think of a more appropriate epitaph than what was said that day.</p>
<p>Linda Brevelle</p>
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<p>It&#8217;s a lengthy, wonderful interview, filled with Serling&#8217;s wit and wisdom, and you see over and over again his self-identification as a &#8216;writer.&#8217;  In fact he said, &#8216;I think I’d rather win, for example, a Writer’s Guild award than almost  anything on earth.&#8217;</p>
<p>Here are some key excerpts:
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<blockquote style="color:rgb(51,51,255);"><p><strong>Brevelle:</strong> Do you have any encouragement for writers  who accumulate a lot of rejection slips?</p>
<p><strong>Serling:</strong> Only that somehow, some way, incredibly  enough, good writing ultimately gets recognized. I don’t know how that  happens but it does. If you’re really a good writer and deserve that  honored position, then by God, you’ll write, and you’ll be read, and  you’ll be produced somehow. It just works that way. If you’re just a  simple ordinary day-to-day craftsman, no different than most, then the  likelihood is that you probably won’t make it in writing. You’re going  to wind up either getting married, working for an insurance company,  joining the regular army, or what-all. But if you have a spark in you, a  cut above the average, I think ultimately you make it.</p>
<p>&#8212;-</p>
<p><strong>Brevelle:</strong> What causes you to write?</p>
<p><strong>Serling:</strong> I never really thought about it. If I could  really conjure up an answer to that, I suppose I’d be able to answer a  lot of questions that bug me.</p>
<p>Why do I write? I guess that’s been asked of every writer. I don’t  know. It isn’t any massive compulsion. I don’t feel, you know, God  dictated that I should write. You know, thunder rents the sky and a bony  finger comes down from the clouds and says, ‘You. You write. You’re the  anointed.’ I never felt that. I suppose it’s part compulsion, part a  channel for what your brain is churning up.</p>
<p>But I don’t subscribe to the ‘Know Thyself’ theory. I’m afraid that  if I started to ponder who I am and what I am, I might not like what I  find. So, I’d rather go along with this sense of illusion that I’m a  neutral beast going along through life doing everything that’s  preordained. I’m out of control anyway, so why fight it. I suppose we  think euphemistically that all writers write because they have something  to say that is truthful and honest and pointed and important. And I  suppose I subscribe to that, too. But God knows when I look back over  thirty years of professional writing, I’m hard-pressed to come up with  anything that’s important. Some things are literate, some things are  interesting, some things are classy, but very damn little is important.</p>
<p>&#8212;-</p>
<p><strong>Brevelle:</strong> What do you like for people to say about  your writing?</p>
<p><strong>Serling:</strong> Well, I guess I like for people to enjoy  it.</p>
<p><strong>Brevelle:</strong> And what do you want them to say about the  writer Rod Serling a hundred years from now?</p>
<p><strong>Serling:</strong> I don’t care. I just want them to remember  me a hundred years from now. I don’t care that they’re not able to quote  any single line that I’ve written. But just that they can say, ‘Oh, he  was a writer.’ That’s sufficiently an honored position for me.</p>
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<p>Thanks again to Lee Matthias for finding this gem.  And here&#8217;s to remembering Rod Serling for his creativity and remarkable insight into the craft of writing.
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		<title>100 Character Development Questions for Writers &#124; Gather</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:17:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[These 100 Character Development questions, written by my friend Rich Taylor, have come in handy so many times for me as a writer! I put Michael through these questions as I was working on his character development, way back when he was brand new to me and we knew nothing about each other. I learned [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=56&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These 100 Character Development questions, written by my friend Rich Taylor, have come in handy so many times for me as a writer! I put Michael through these questions as I was working on his character development, way back when he was brand new to me and we knew nothing about each other. I learned a ton of stuff about who he was, and also I learned a lot about how I wanted to approach telling his story. <br />
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My advice is to do the questions a bit a time so you don&#8217;t burn out on them. Just when you have some quiet time, sit down with your character (perhaps over a cup of tea) and let them answer the questions naturally. Skip any that do not apply to your character or world&#8221;</p>
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		<title>How To Get Hired with Social Networking &#124; Uproxx</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How To Get Hired with Social Networking &#124; Uproxx: &#8220; See More » Web Culture and original features from top bloggers and contributors HomeFeaturesTrends Blogs DIY MAKE YOUR OWN 3D VIDEO CAMERA FOR $300 OR LESS HIRING? HOW TO GET HIRED WITH SOCIAL NETWORKING UFC 10 SPONSORS WHO MAKE ME EMBARRASSED TO LIKE UFC 03.14.10HOW [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=54&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>03.14.10HOW TO GET HIRED WITH SOCIAL NETWORKING<br />
 WRITTEN BY DAN SEITZ<br />
Everybody wants a job right now, the unemployment rate being what it is, and finding that job can be harder than your ex-boss’s skull. Luckily, we live in an age where networking doesn’t involve calling all your friends, it involves being out there in the public. It’s easy to catch attention, and you can do it by:</p>
<p>#1) Getting your resume online</p>
<p>The best way to do this is with a clean, simple webpage that makes reading your resume easy. Make it easy to find; tie it to your blog or your own web domain. Make it a specific, easy to remember link. And then make sure that link is in every profile on every social networking site you maintain. If somebody w&#8221;</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Unless you’ve been living in the moron cave on Retard Mountain, you’ve probably noticed that romantic comedies are big business.  Movies like The Proposal, The Ugly Truth, that one with Matthew McConaughey and the treasure; they’re out there earning two and three hundred million dollars.  And if you think that’s because they’re good, I’ve got [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=52&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unless you’ve been living in the moron cave on Retard Mountain, you’ve probably noticed that romantic comedies are big business.  Movies like The Proposal, The Ugly Truth, that one with Matthew McConaughey and the treasure; they’re out there earning two and three hundred million dollars.  And if you think that’s because they’re good, I’ve got news for you, retard, you’re retarded.  The truth is, they make that kind of scratch because they tap into a familiar formula that boring people find comforting and recognize as one of their own, rather than attacking with pitchforks like they would an intellectual challenge, or the town ogre.  And now, be&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Us: &#8221; Now and then people ask me, &#8216;What is the biggest mistake writers make when theyre writing a romantic comedy?&#8217; My answer is: They put too much emphasis on the obstacles—the things that keep their protagonists apart.  Because actually whats more important, and in my view, the primary job of a rom-com writer, is [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=50&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Now and then <a href="http://writeononline.com/2010/02/26/author-qa-billy-mernit-writing-the-romantic-comedy/">people ask me</a>, &#8216;What is the biggest mistake writers make when theyre writing a romantic comedy?&#8217;</p>
<p>My answer is: They put too much emphasis on<br />
the obstacles—the things that keep their protagonists apart.  Because actually whats more important, and in my view, the primary job of a rom-com writer, is to convince the audience<br />
that these two people <em>must</em> <em>become a couple</em>.  Whats going to make us root for the leads in a romantic comedy, whats going to make us care about whether or not they hook up in the end, is a keen sense that they really do belong together.</p>
<p>Which brings us to an age-old query:  Why do two people fall for each other?  What makes a relationship work?  What <em>is</em> this thing we call love?</p>
<p><a href="http://livingromcom.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c7f0d53ef0120a8e46132970b-pi" style="float:right;"><img alt="Holding hands9780865479296" src="http://livingromcom.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c7f0d53ef0120a8e46132970b-200wi" style="width:200px;margin:0 0 5px 5px;"></a> Curiosity about this subject has impelled John Bowe (editor, journalist, and co-screenwriter of <em>Basquiat)</em> to publish <a onclick="return mugicPopWin(this,event);" oncontextmenu="mugicRightClick(this);" href="http://www.amazon.com/Us-Americans-Talk-About-Love/dp/0865479291/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267426768&amp;sr=1-1">Us: Americans Talk About Love</a>.  This treasure trove of a book, a follow up to Bowes <em>Gig: Americans Talk About Their Jobs</em>, offers up a myriad of takes on the  What We Talk About When We Talk About Love issue.  Relevant auteur Judd Apatow has graced its jacket with a <em>Thats what I was thinking!</em> quote:  &#8216;Every story is a small movie I wish someone would make.&#8217;</p>
<p>Right.  Because another mistake that aspiring rom-com writers make is that they try to write Movie Love, as opposed to love as its found in real life.  The real-life stories told here easily trump half the cinematic love hooey Ive seen in recent years.</p>
<p>The key to Bowes success is diversity.  In his preface to this collection of &#8216;oral reports from across the United States,&#8217; Bowe acknowledges the effort he and his collaborators made to find a representative sampling of this countrys panoply of people &#8211; young, old, black, white, et al (<a href="http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2010/02/09/john_bowe_interview/index.html?source=newsletter">a Salon interview with Bowe</a> elaborates on their methodology).  One of the big kicks in reading it comes from the jaw-dropping contrast between one persons experience of love and anothers.</p>
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<p>For example, heres a moment from the tale of Colorados Jeremy Vanhaitsma, age 30, who staged an elaborate proposal for his beloved that included bringing her into a small rural church, where hed prepared a basin of water and a towel:</p>
<p><em>I asked her if I could wash her feet.  Its just a symbol, an example of the love the Lord gave to show the full extent of His love.  This was completely new.  She had never had anybody wash her feet.  I shared my heart about why I wanted to do it: so that our relationship would be sealed, so we could serve one another, and so that we could go out and do that to others.</em></p>
<p>Jeremys story is directly followed by that of Dominic Sclafani, age 30, from Arizona, which begins:</p>
<p><em>I like people who play.  People who are fun and who punch me at random moments and who do weird shit.  The first time I met Chyna, we were at a rave.  She bit me.  I was totally into it.  Im like, &#8216;Fucking bite me harder!&#8217;  And she got all excited and I got all excited, because I like being bitten and scratched up.  That was orgasmic.</em></p>
<p>Diversity, dude.  Its typical of this shrewdly organized collection, which moves from stories told by people whove been in love a relatively short time to people whove loved for a lifetime.  And some of this stuff is harrowing &#8211; brutal, scary, painful material, smarting with truths that are worlds apart from your typical rose-colored gift card homilies.</p>
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<p>Theres something about people telling their stories out loud &#8211; people who arent writers &#8211; that pierces the fabric between storyteller and audient in a uniquely compelling way.  Like Celia Menendez, 17, of San Antonio, who starts with: &#8216;This is the first time Ive ever been in love and Im still feeling miserable.&#8217;  Later on, she unloads an observation topped with a casual throwaway line that would turn any novelist or screenwriter I know green with envy:</p>
<p><em>I would never have stayed up on the phone until one in the morning, just talking about nothing, with anyone else &#8211; even my best, best friends.  But him, even if I couldnt physically be with him, I could sit on the phone with him for hours.  I think its part of the reason I failed calculus</em>.</p>
<p>These oral reports are like short stories, like movies, only more incredible, in that they really happened.  Ultimately, thats a big part of what youre left with: the wonder.  There are reasons upon reasons here for &#8216;why I fell in love&#8217; and &#8216;what love means to me&#8217; &#8211; if youre writing a romantic comedy, dramedy, or tragedy, I cant think of a better contemporary source book for such thoughts &#8211; yet in the end, the fundamental mystery remains.  As one Shawn Whitworth of New York, New York concludes:</p>
<p><em>I would like to choose to believe that I have loved or that I can and am capable of love.  Im almost sure that it exists.  But if it slapped me in the face, I couldnt tell you what it was.</em></p>
<p><em>Us</em> can be as bracing as a kick in the head, and it tells us a lot about what love is.<span style="text-decoration:underline;"><br /></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:10px;">[Photos from: lovescape.org, 101lovetips.com, timpaphotography.files.wordpress.com, piratesandfireflies.wordpress.com]</span></p>
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		<title>Ten rules for writers &#8211; the Neil Gaiman shortcut</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Guardian last weekend collected rules for fiction writers&#8211;but actually for any writers&#8211;from, among others,&#160;Elmore Leonard, Margaret Atwood, Jonathan Franzen, Joyce Carol Oates, and Annie Proulx. My favorite, from Neil Gaiman:&#160; The main rule of writing is that if you do it with enough assurance and confidence, you&#8217;re allowed to do whatever you like. (That [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=17&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The <em>Guardian</em> last weekend collected <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2010/feb/20/ten-rules-for-writing-fiction-part-one">rules for fiction writers</a>&#8211;but actually for any writers&#8211;from, among others,&nbsp;Elmore Leonard, Margaret Atwood, Jonathan Franzen, Joyce Carol Oates, and Annie Proulx. </p>
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<p>My favorite, from <a href="http://www.neilgaiman.com/">Neil Gaiman</a>:&nbsp;</p>
<blockquote><p>The main rule of writing is that if you do it with enough assurance and confidence, you&#8217;re allowed to do whatever you like. (That may be a rule for life as well as for writing. But it&#8217;s definitely true for writing.) So write your story as it needs to be written. Write it honestly, and tell it as best you can. I&#8217;m not sure that there are any other rules. Not ones that matter.</p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had a theory.&#160; Things tend to be cyclical in our culture of arts and entertainment, and having just seen the romantic comedy genre dominated for a decade by male point-of-view raunch-coms (the Apatow era, from 40 Year-Old Virgin to last year&#8217;s bromantic I Love You, Man), I figured it&#8217;s about time for the meter [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=15&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a theory.&nbsp; Things tend to be cyclical in our culture of arts and entertainment, and having just seen the romantic comedy genre dominated for a decade by male point-of-view raunch-coms (the Apatow era, from <em>40 Year-Old Virgin</em> to last year&#8217;s bromantic <em>I Love You, Man</em>), I figured it&#8217;s about time for the meter to swing the other way.</p>
<p>Now that all things scatological and even gynecological (see <em>Knocked Up</em>) have been mined for comedy, I reasoned we&#8217;re due for the return of romance &#8211; meaning softer, less sexually-centric stories that mine what&#8217;s left of the genuinely romantic in our increasingly anti-sentimental culture.&nbsp; Seems to me that there&#8217;s only so many gags about gagging a genre can take, and soon enough we&#8217;ll start seeing movies that put a more classical sense of romanticism back in rom-com.</p>
<p>My Uh-Oh Moment came roughly at the midpoint of my 4-day &#8220;Writing the Romantic Comedy&#8221; course at UCLA Extension. We were talking -&nbsp; a dozen students and myself &#8211; about the vagaries of dating.&nbsp; This was in relation to one writer&#8217;s project, and where in the trajectory of her imaginary couple&#8217;s relationship things might get physical.&nbsp; The youngest member of the group, a 22 year-old writer named Sarah, raised her hand.</p>
<p>&#8220;But nobody <em>dates</em>,&#8221; she said.&nbsp; The room &#8211; predominately 30- and 40- somethings &#8211; quieted.&nbsp; &#8220;I mean, if you&#8217;re interested in someone, you hook up,&#8221; she explained.&nbsp; &#8220;And then, if that, like, works out&#8230; maybe then you might end up going out for dinner or something.&nbsp; But nobody&#8217;s like&#8230; <em>dating</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>The room filled with the silent sound of many older people feeling older, as they tried to wrap their minds around this information.</p>
<p>The discussion resumed and the course went on, but I couldn&#8217;t help feeling as though the collective romantic psyche of the group had just been dealt a body-blow.&nbsp; So much for my theory.&nbsp; How could a new&nbsp; generation of moviegoers have any interest in traditional rom-com romance, if their own romantic lives begin with casual sexual hook-ups and flare or fade from there? </p>
<p><em><a href="http://livingromcom.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c7f0d53ef01287775fb1f970c-pi" style="float:right;"><img alt="Dear j P201002080823061824981133" src="http://livingromcom.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c7f0d53ef01287775fb1f970c-200wi" style="width:200px;margin:0 0 5px 5px;"></a> Au contraire</em>.&nbsp; The tip-off, had we been alert enough to take it in, came at the end of that day&#8217;s class when young Sarah mentioned the penance her boyfriend was performing that evening.&nbsp; &#8220;We had this fight that was his fault?&#8221; she told us. &#8220;And so he has to take me to see <em>Dear John</em> tonight.&nbsp; He&#8217;d love to get out of it, but like, no way.&#8221;</p>
<p>Apparently she and her boyfriend were not alone.&nbsp; <em>Dear John</em> raked in a hefty $32.4 mil in its opening weekend, knocking the billion-dollar titan <em>Avatar</em> off its seven week-long perch as America&#8217;s number one movie.&nbsp; Yes, all the guys were home watching the Bowl, so there was a natural bump for the movie&#8217;s target demographic, but despite bemused-to-dismal <a href="http://movies.nytimes.com/2010/02/05/movies/05dear.html">reviews</a>, this latest four-hankie entry in the Nicholas Sparks canon is like, a monster.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, the industry is a thick-headed beast which, even after the phenomenal success of pictures like <em>Sex and the City</em>, still appears shocked and stunned to discover that women actually do go to movie theaters.&nbsp; It&#8217;s past time for the biz to get the message.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s the rewrite of my theory re: romance&#8217;s return.&nbsp; Why are the nation&#8217;s tweens, teens and young 20-somethings flocking to the <em>Twilight</em> franchise, and giving the Nicholas Sparks brand a major hit in <em>John</em>?&nbsp; Because romance is what&#8217;s lacking in their love lives.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Maybe when hooking up is the norm, and the slow, deliciously torturous build-up toward physical consummation has been relegated to the passe past, what&#8217;s passionately romantic &#8211; as opposed to raunchily sexual &#8211; is the new wish fulfillment fantasy: The crude, lewd Aughts are giving way to the chastely passionate Teens.&nbsp; After all, the <em>Twilight</em> series is all about sublimation, while <em>Dear John</em> &#8211; if it&#8217;s anything like other Sparks pics such as <em>The Notebook </em>- is more about what&#8217;s unrequited &#8211; it&#8217;s retro-romantic angst. </p>
<p>But add some tart laughs to counter all the syrup, and you could have the Old School Romantic, Nouveau Romantic Comedy I&#8217;ve been theorizing about as the genre&#8217;s next direction.&nbsp; At least, that&#8217;s <a href="http://livingromcom.typepad.com/my_weblog/2010/02/revenge-of-the-romantic.html">Living the Rom-Com</a>&#8216;s take.&nbsp; What say you?</p>
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		<title>Romantic Comedy in the 2000s</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bill Merrit, author of &#8220;Writing the Romantic Comedy&#8221;, shares some thoughts of the current state of the romcom genre: There was one major romantic comedy trend in the 2000s: the rise of the Male POV Rom-Com &#8211; the Macho Chick Flick (as I called it), Slacker Striver movie (David Denby) or Raunch-Com (Entertainment Weekly).&#160; A [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=12&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bill Merrit, author of &#8220;Writing the Romantic Comedy&#8221;, shares some thoughts of the current state of the romcom genre:</p>
<p>There was one major romantic comedy trend in the 2000s: the rise of the Male POV Rom-Com &#8211; the Macho Chick Flick (as I called it), Slacker Striver movie (David Denby) or Raunch-Com (Entertainment Weekly).&nbsp; A secondary trend, which could be seen as a necessary reaction to the first, was the codification of the traditional female-driven romantic comedy and its sub-genre, the Wedding Rom-Com: really-for-the-girls movies that were tacitly retro in sensibility, in that they made getting hitched the be-all and end-all for their female protagonists.</p>
<p>One could say &#8211; and I will &#8211; that in the Romantic Comedy Oughts, men invaded and took over the genre, and women largely retreated to the traditional (often formulaic) arena.&nbsp;&amp;nbsp
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<img src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/_LN8t8bjYbbc/S5KOWRM95DI/AAAAAAAAAEk/tOMg__JtmVE/photo_07_hires.jpg?imgmax=800" alt="photo_07_hires.jpg" border="0" width="700" height="467" align="left" />The emerging/defining talent of the Male POV Rom-Com was of course Judd Apatow, whose influence was so pervasive (as writer, director and producer) that an adjacent trend &#8211; the establishment of the Bromantic Comedy (heterosexual boy meets, loses and gets boy) &#8211; was perhaps best exemplified by 2009&#8242;s <em>I Love You, Man</em>: a bromance that was pure Apatow in its casting, script and sensibility&#8230; even though the Slacker-Striver auteur had nothing to do with actually making it.</p>
<p>The Male POV Rom-Com of the 2000s were game-changers in one subtle but important way.&nbsp; They shifted the genre&#8217;s very perception of what might constitute a romantic male lead (Hello, Seth Rogen?!) and made their heroes the ones who had to learn a lesson (as opposed to say, Katherine Hepburn or any of the other post-screwball heroines who had to straighten up and fly right in decades past).&nbsp; The operative wish- fulfillment fantasy here was: any (and we do mean <em>any</em>) kind of poor shlub could land an alpha dream girl.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, the Female-Driven Rom-Com continued to chug along on its own wish-fulfillment track (i.e. that any good woman could land that ever-elusive One Good Man), and the Wedding Rom-Com (from <em>My Big Fat Greek Wedding </em>to<em> 27 Dresses</em>) became ubiquitous.&nbsp; Yes, there were the occasional ensemble estrogen fests (<em>Sex and the City</em>), but by and large, what we&#8217;ve always thought of as predictable, formulaic &#8220;how to land a man&#8221; movies continued to attract solid female audiences, even if by default (see <em>Sweet Home Alabama, Failure to Launch, The Holiday,</em> et al).</p>
<p>Missing in action &#8211; much to my personal disappointment and <a href="http://jezebel.com/5426065/fuck-them-times-critic-on-hollywood-women--why-romantic-comedies-suck">to the dismay of at least one prominent critic</a> &#8211; was the memorable romantic comedy piloted by a strong, powerful woman who was not first and foremost trying to hook up.&nbsp; Two notable anomalies were cross-genre hybrids: 2005&#8242;s <em>Mr. and Mrs. Smith</em> (featuring assassin Angelina Jolie) and 2006&#8242;s <em>My Super Ex-Girlfriend</em> (with super-heroine Uma Thurman).&nbsp; The implication here is that only a woman who&#8217;s nearly non-human can make sustaining a committed relationship her secondary priority.</p>
<p>When it came to adding on a new decade&#8217;s Notable Ten to my original 100 Notables, I found it was often the memorable movies that transcended such male or female classifications that made the cut (though 6 of my Top 10 are told from the male POV).&nbsp; The following list, it must be stressed, doesn&#8217;t represent my favorite rom-coms of the Oughts, or even the &#8220;best,&#8221; but hopes to define what were the most <em>significant</em> romantic comedies of the decade: significant in the sense that these films were most indicative of (or had the most impact on) their cultural moment, and/or are most likely to endure for the years to come.&nbsp; Here (in chronological order) are the ten romantic comedies that seem to me most representative of&#8230;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">The 2000s: Attack of the Boy-Men</span></p>
<p><em>My Big Fat Greek Wedding</em> (2002)</p>
<p><em>Lost in Translation</em> (2003)</p>
<p><em>Something&#8217;s Gotta Give</em> (2003)</p>
<p><em>Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind</em> (2004)</p>
<p><em>Hitch</em> (2005)</p>
<p><em>The 40 Year-Old Virgin</em> (2005)</p>
<p><em>Wedding Crashers</em> (2005)</p>
<p><em>Enchanted</em> (2007)</p>
<p><em>Wall-E</em> (2008)</p>
<p><em>(500) Days of Summer</em> (2009)</p>
<p>Caveats: Despite its status as one of the top rom-com moneymakers of all time, I don&#8217;t really consider<em> Greek Wedding</em> to be a romantic comedy (its central question is not &#8220;Will these two people become a couple?&#8221; but &#8220;Will this woman become independent of her family?&#8221;).&nbsp; Nonetheless, most people think of it as a rom-com &#8211; whereas most don&#8217;t consider <em>Wall-E</em> to be one, and I do (it&#8217;s an animated sci-fi rom-com, but it absolutely follows and excitingly fulfills the rom-com paradigm).</p>
<p><em>Hitch</em> had the biggest opening of any rom-com in history and is one of the only successful rom-coms to star a black protagonist; while some may prefer <em>Knocked Up</em> to <em>Virgin</em>, <em>Virgin</em> is the mold-making Apatow entry; the hugely successful <em>Wedding Crashers</em> is an aptly titled symbol of how the male POV infiltrated even that most hallowed of female milieus.</p>
<p>The other entries are, I believe, self-explanatory in terms of their genre contributions.&nbsp; But to forestall (or kindle) further argument, here&#8217;s an additional baker&#8217;s dozen.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Runners-Up</span>: <em>Bridget Jones&#8217;s Diary, Love Actually, 50 First Dates, Knocked Up, Juno, 27 Dresses</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Sleepers</span>: <em>Punch-Drunk Love, About a Boy, Nick &amp; Nora&#8217;s Infinite Playlist, Vicki Cristina Barcelona</em>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Top 3 Bromantic Comedies</span>: <em>Superbad, Pineapple Express, I Love You Man&lt;</p>
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		<title>Rob Serling on inspiration</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 21:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<blockquote><p>The easiest thing on earth is to come up with an idea. The hardest thing on earth is to put it down.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Atemporality for the Creative Artist by Bruce Sterling</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ein sozialer Aspekt dieser Entwicklung zeigt sich im Web 2.0. Wie sich dies auf intellektuelle Prozesse auswirkt, illustrierte Sterling mit einer Anekdote des Physikers Richard Feynman. Dessen Strategie zur Lösung theoretischer Fragen lautete: &#8220;1. Schreib das Problem auf. 2. Denk ganz scharf nach. 3. Schreib die Lösung auf.&#8221; Dieser akademische Scherz hat für Sterling eine [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=dropthepopcorn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=12268959&amp;post=10&amp;subd=dropthepopcorn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Ein sozialer Aspekt dieser Entwicklung zeigt sich im Web 2.0. Wie sich dies auf intellektuelle Prozesse auswirkt, illustrierte Sterling mit einer Anekdote des Physikers Richard Feynman. Dessen Strategie zur Lösung theoretischer Fragen lautete: &#8220;1. Schreib das Problem auf. 2. Denk ganz scharf nach. 3. Schreib die Lösung auf.&#8221; Dieser akademische Scherz hat für Sterling eine weitere, &#8220;atemporale&#8221; Pointe. Angenommen, Feynman lebte in einem sozialen Netzwerk. Dann würde er im ersten Schritt nicht mehr das Problem auf Papier festhalten, sondern in einer Suchmaschine nachschauen, ob schon jemand anderes das Problem gelöst hat. Anschließend könnte er es bloggen, twittern, ein Video ins Netz stellen und dergleichen mehr. Er käme im zweiten Schritt zum Ergebnis, dass die Maschinen das Problem irrelevant gemacht haben.</p></blockquote>
<p>Here&#8217;s Bruce Sterling&#8217;s speech at Transmediale, a talk on &#8220;atemporality for the creative artist,&#8221; which explains what the net and technology have done to the idea of the history and the future. It&#8217;s chunky stuff, exciting, and weird:<br />Atemporality for the Creative Artist </p>
<p>(via <a href="http://www.wired.com/beyond_the_beyond/2010/02/atemporality-for-the-creative-artist/">wired.com</a>)</p>
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